Demanding too much from a guy in a relationship and being possessive
is undoubtedly considered as the part and parcel of the female psyche.
Women usually have the tendency to exhaust men emotionally, but that is
not always the case. We completely understand that people do person
experiences many “thick and thins” during their lives. But even then
this excuse is not enough to cut out communication with your partner and
leave her stranded.
If your partner hesitates while telling the truth, then this compilation is tailor-made for you.
15. No more love
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The moment your partner starts complaining that “you are not the same
anymore”, get alert dear. This is the very first sign of falling out of
love. But this is not it. Eventually, there’ll come a time when he’ll
say that you don’t love him anymore, and that’s when you’ll go mad.
Remember, going mad is no bad. In fact, you have the right to go crazy
if he is putting HIS FAULTS on your shoulder.
14. Demanding space
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It starts with you spending days and nights with your partner; and
all of a sudden he backs off. This demand for space is not a problem at
all, but that does not mean that it cannot trouble your relationship. Do
not let the demand growth. Try and kill it as soon as possible. The
expanding distance between both of you can prove to be a perfect
invitation for the breakup agents.
13. No clear direction
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If your man wants to be with you, he will do anything to stay with
you and make you feel easy. Your relationship will lose its freshness
when he starts losing interest in you. Your partner ignoring the
material things in your relationship and getting confused regarding the
future is one of the top reasons behind the death of the love between
both of you.
12. Excuses, excuses and excuses….
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Believe it or not, your partner will have the dumbest excuses for not
doing almost everything that you would want to do with him. It seems
like as if he has suddenly become a skilled excuse maker for everything
every time. Moreover, your weekend plans might even get cancelled too,
and that even very frequently. Well, if you notice this then that means
you both are ready to fall down.
11. Making new friends
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If your partner is continuously ignoring you when he is with his
friends then you should better worry. To make male friends is not a big
issue. The problem starts when he starts spending time with girls that
you do not know. Moreover, he keeps them as his first priority and pays
zero attention to your text messages.
10. Lost interest
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Thing gets even trickier when a guy stops paying attention to what
his girlfriend says. Imagine that you are telling your guy an extremely
important story, and he hears it physically but ignores listening to it
mentally. This indicates that he does not own your problems anymore.
9. The boring date nights
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At the start, spending the nights dating with your partner was fun.
But now the things are not same. He is no fun at all, he gives a same
old reply to everything that you say, he does not tell you what’s going
on in his life, he keeps scrolling his phone and you have nothing to
discuss; are all the signs that it’s not working anymore. Probably he
has already found something or something more attention-worthy.
8. Ignoring the physical part
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Yes, we know that relationships are all built around the emotions and
feeling and mental factors. But that never eliminates the importance of
the physical aspect. Spending nights together and having a whole lot of
fun holds its own significance. If he repeatedly avoids getting
physical with you, then this surely means that he is weakening one of
the main pillars that your relationship is standing on.
7. He doesn’t try anymore
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If your partner shows lack of interest in your day because he doesn’t
care about how was your day or if your relationship is just a normal
and a regular routine, then you need to think about your relationship
with a person who makes your relationship a routine for you which often
becomes dull and boring. A relationship which is based on love is not a
routine and it shouldn’t be that way.
6. Getting cheap
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Every girl wants her guy to treat her like a queen. A girl always
gets treated like a daddy’s princess, and she demands the same treatment
from her partner. Yes, your partner used to pay bills and treat you
well when it all got started. But you should occasionally check that
where your relationship stands. Is he asking you to pay the bills? Is he
continuously abusing you? If that is the case then do not listen to his
lame excuses and ask him to treat you right.
5. He forgets
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Both of you make plans when you are on call and the other day he
completely forgets about the plans that you made. He remains busy and
avoids the meeting that he planned for you. He forgets your birthday and
even neglects to wish you a happy anniversary at 12:00 am. This
probably means one thing, which is that your relationship is not the
first thing on his mind. He does not think of you the way he did before.
4. He wants to change you
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You guys seemed perfect to each other in the beginning. After some
time, you starting noticing his flaws and loved him even more for them.
But the case with your partner is vice versa. He used to tell you he
loves you but now he wants to change you. He gets annoyed by everything
you do. This is a sign that love is long gone and you need to think
about maybe reinvesting in your relationship.
3. He always plays the blame game
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Relationships are all about mutual understanding. It requires
combined efforts for a love story to flourish. One must accept his/her
faults in a relationship and try to rectify what went wrong. Well if
your partner is playing the blame games and eventually blaming you for
everything that went wrong, then we have a bad news for you. He might be
hiding his flaws, deficiencies and mistakes while playing such games.
2. He’s too busy
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He’s reluctant in spending time with you. Things are not the same
anymore. You might find him distracted than usual in your presence,
which shows that he just doesn’t want to spend time with you physically
when you are there. He would look into his mobile phone or maybe in some
other stuff and would demand distance and space. His distance only
means that he’s not into it anymore.
1. No calls or texts
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In the ancient times, people used to communicate through the letters that were sent via pigeons or the postmen.
The sending process took hours, even days, to communicate. But if
your partner takes hours and days to reply in today’s world of
electronic communication, then our conclusion would be no surprise to
you. He has found some other ways of amusing himself.
Society constantly makes the assumption that only jealous people sense
the feeling of infidelity in a relationship. Society also makes the
assumption that men are the usual culprits. But women are just as likely
to cheat on their partner as men do. With that said, there are signs
that your girlfriend is cheating on you.
Getting the feeling that your girlfriend is cheating is not easy to
explain, especially if she doesn’t appear to have done anything wrong.
But you have this strange feeling in the pit of your stomach that she
is. Unfortunately this feeling is not enough to accuse or confront her
about cheating. You need to treat it like a law case; you need to be
able to prove it.
In order to prove it, you need to look for patterns or signs that can
help you build your case. Below are the top signs that your girlfriend
is cheating on you.
You’re No Longer A Team: There is nothing more
beautiful than an independent woman. For many years women have fought to
get equal rights and they will do everything in their power to keep
them. But when you’re in a committed relationship,
you have to learn to start working as a team. If you and your
girlfriend were once a team, but now you notice she is going back to her
independent ways, this could be a sign that she is planning on
replacing or leaving you. This is one of the most common signs that your
girlfriend is cheating on you.
She Points Out Every Flaw: Everyone makes mistakes
and no one is perfect in this world, and your girlfriend knows that. But
if you notice that she has been pointing out every flaw of yours, she
might be trying to give herself some fuel to break up with you. She may
also be trying to make it seem that the reason she’s breaking up with
you is because of all the flaws she’s been pointing out.
Constantly Wondering Where You Are: You might think
it is sweet that your girlfriend wants to know what your plans are for
the day, but there is a chance that she is only doing this so she can
make sure you two don’t run into each other. When someone is cheating,
the obvious goal is to never get caught, and the only way to do that is
to know where your partner is at all times.
Dismissive:If your girlfriend is usually a good
listener and a very approachable person, then it might be a red flag if
she begins to be very dismissive. If she stops listening to things you
are telling her or shrugs off questions when you ask her, you might want
to start looking for cheating clues.
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Nights At Work: Being supportive in a
relationship is essential, especially if it involves your girlfriend
trying to get a promotion at work. However, if someone’s occasional late
nights turn into constant late nights every week, this could be a red
flag. If she isn’t cheating, she’ll realize that sometimes there are
more important things in life than work.
She Stops Opening Up: Sometimes people think that
cheating is only a physical act. But emotional cheating can be just as
tragic if not more. If your girlfriend has stopped opening up to you
despite your persistent approach to talking to her, she may have found
someone else that she is opening up to.
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She Has Many New Friends: There is nothing wrong
with having a large social circle. Different faces and personalities
always make for good friendships. But if you notice that she’s making
new friends and you haven’t been invited to meet them at any point,
something might not be right. This could be a sign that she is trying to
move to a different crowd that has no association with you.
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Trouble In the Bedroom: A healthy sex life
is an important part of an intimate relationship. It doesn’t mean that
you have to constantly show your love and affection through physicality
every single day, but if there is a lack of spontaneous activity, there
could be a problem. Every relationship has its ups and downs and
sometimes the sex life can get stale. If your girlfriend’s interest in
being intimate with you keeps decreasing, she might be getting her fix
from someone else.
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Her Phone Gets All the Attention:With the invention
of the smartphone, people rarely have to spend time with each other
because they can interact with different types of social media. In
relationships, it’s a good way to stay connected when you’re not
together, but when you are with each other, there should be no need for
phones. If your girlfriend is on her phone more frequently than usual
when she’s with you, she might be cheating. She might also be obsessed
with her social media, which is also an issue as well.
Complete Makeover: Signs that your girlfriend is cheating on you definitely includes her getting a complete makeover.
It’s natural for both partners to get comfortable in a relationship
over time. This is a good thing though, it shows that both of you feel
that the relationship is in a stable place. However, if you notice that
she has bought new clothes, got a fresh new style to her hair and is
wearing perfume every time she leaves the house, it could be a red flag.
She might try and play it off and say she’s trying to look good for
you, but you know that she looked good even before she did this
transformation.
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She’s Hiding Things: I’m all for having personal
space when it comes to certain things. If I have a password on my phone,
it doesn’t mean I’m hiding things, it just means I don’t want anyone
invading my privacy. However, if your girlfriend becomes very defensive
about her phone, laptop or tablet, there might be a raise for concern.
This is especially true if you find her changing her passwords or
getting really jumpy as soon as you walk into the room. This is one of
the strongest signs that your girlfriend is cheating on you.
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Let me remind you that these behaviors should only be used as signs
and not actual proof. The last thing you want to do is make a big scene
about something that might not even be true because it could have
consequences for your relationship. However, do not ignore the signs
that your girlfriend is cheating on you, use them as a guideline if you
decide to confront her.
In our day-to-day lives, work, school, and other stressors can make
it hard to maintain a strong relationship like when they first started.
It can be a struggle to get a relationship back in the place that you
want it to be. “Well, it seems to me that the best relationships – the
ones that last – are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship.”
– Gillian Anderson But like Nicholas Sparks mentioned, “Every couple
needs to argue now and then. Just to prove that the relationship is
strong enough to survive. Long-term relationships, the ones that matter,
are all about weathering the peaks and the valleys.” Luckily, there are
plenty of things that can help strengthen a relationship and keep the
feeling of love steady and strong. It’s the little things that really
help build up a relationship. Sure, you need the strong foundations to
start off with, but the smaller things help build up a relationship and
keep it strong.
1. Check Up On Each Other
When you both make it a habit to check in on one another, it can
really help strengthen the feeling of love between you. Couples who call
one another after a long day at work to see how they’re feeling, or
send a text to make sure that they made it home okay after a long
journey, will have a better connection and feel taken care of by one
another. It’s such a small thing, but it can really make a world of
difference.
A couple who can share a sense of humor and laugh together will form
all kinds of emotional bonds that can help keep the relationship running
strong. Psychologist Doris Bazzini, Ph.D. says, “Laughter reminiscence
packs an additional punch because people relive the moment by laughing
again.” Whether you decide to sit down with a funny movie, or just an
evening of watching funny YouTube videos, laughing together is
important. Once a couple laughs together, their brains will be wired to
associate each other with happiness and laughter.
Whether it’s just your feelings, or emotional and traumatic things
from your past, learning to share with your partner can make your
relationship that much stronger. Couples who feel as if they can tell
one another anything will have a stronger relationship than couples who
are afraid to be vulnerable with one another. Strength comes from being
able to trust one another, and couples who can share will have a strong
and lasting relationship.
Everyone wants to feel heard when they talk, so having good listening
skills is important in any relationship. Everyone should be able to
listen openly when their partner speaks. Letting your partner know that
you’re listening to their feelings, fears or concerns will help make it
easier for them to trust you. With trust, comes strength in any
relationship. Couples who are good at listening to one another will have
a lasting, strong relationship.
Being completely honest will help keep the relationship strong, even
if it’s not something that your partner wants to hear. Couples who are
able, to be honest about how they’re feeling, what they’re thinking and
their opinions on certain topics are able to keep their relationship
strong despite all of it. “What honesty gives you is a great deal of
comfort. Knowing you can implicitly trust your mate allows you to be
your best self, and your relationship will continue to thrive because
you are able to give each other the positive energy you need to navigate
life’s ups and downs,” says psychotherapist, syndicated columnist, and
radio host Barton Goldsmith Ph.D. It’s important to be able to trust
that your partner is going to be honest with you, no matter what.
Being spontaneous helps make sure that the relationship doesn’t fall
into a rut. If you want to get in the car and take a vacation one town
over for the weekend, do it! If you want to make random plans, follow
through! “Over time, it’s inevitable that life falls into a pattern of
routine and “same old, same old.” It’s easy to fall into behaviors that
are reliable, steady, and boring as well. So it’s important to change it
up from time to time to alter our thinking, provide a new perspective,
and create interest and excitement,” says psychiatrist Abigail Brenner
M.D. Couples will have a strengthened relationship when they’re able to
go with the flow and give in to their impulses.
Having access to the Internet in these countries is one of the best gifts their government can give to the citizens.
In Africa, mobile technology
has evolved rapidly but access to the internet is considered a luxury in
several parts of the continent.
According to the Internet World Statistics,
only 18 percent of the continent’s population have access to the
internet. Even with about 17 fibre cables crossing the Atlantic Oceans
to Africa, broadband services are still more expensive in the region
than other countries in the world.
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Based
on this situation, here are countries in Africa where access to the
internet is only for the wealthy and elite. In these countries, an
individual internet user pays at least $100 to get access to the
internet.
1. Burkina Faso
Burkina
Faso has the most expensive cost of internet in the world. To get
access to a broadband in the West African country, it cost around
$972.26 a month for average internet users.
Burkina Faso ranked 196 out of the 196 countries surveyed in the study.
2. Namibia
Namibia
ranked 194 of 196 world countries on the cost of internet. For the
Southern Africa country, it costs $451.12 on a monthly basis to have
access to the internet.
3. Zimbabwe
Zimbabwe is currently undergoing economic challenges that has affected development in all aspects of life in the country.
For internet users in the country, $170.00 is allocated for broadband packages. Zimbabwe was ranked 188th in the world.
4. Mali
Mali
is another country with high cost of internet. In the Sahel desert
nation, internet users spend on average $165 monthly to secure access
to the internet.
Mali was ranked 187th on the cost of internet in the world.
5. Angola
For
Angola, a limited number of telecom companies in the country also
accounts for high-cost broadband in the Southern Africa nation.
An average internet user in the country budgeted $139 monthly expenses on a broadband package. Angola is ranked 180th.
6. Niger Republic
The
cost internet in the Niger Republic was estimated $121 per month for a
broadband package. The Niger Republic ranked 176th country with most
expensive internet cost across the globe.
7. Somalia
High spate of destruction of communication infrastructure accounts for the high cost of internet in the country.
It cost $117 to get a broadband package in the country. This puts the country as 174th on the cost of internet in the world.
8. Comoros
Cost of the internet in the island nation was estimated at $116 on a monthly average. Comoros ranked 173rd on internet cost.
9. Tanzania
Internet
users in Tanzania also budget around $115 to cater for their broadband
need on a monthly basis. Tanzania is positioned as 172nd country with
most expensive cost of internet in the world.
10. Sierra Leone
Sierra
Leoneans have noted to spend a monthly average of $113 on the internet.
This puts the country as 171st on the cost of internet list.
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