Older
generation must give way, we have become analogue – IBB
By Wole Mosadom
Former Military President, General Ibrahim Badamasi Babangida
has called on the old generation to give up power and give the younger ones the
opportunity to steer the affairs of the nation.
He said that the old generation has overstayed in the corridor of power and
their ideas are becoming rusted.
Speaking at his Uphill residence when he received the
members of New Nigeria group, a new political movement led by its leader, Moses
Siloko Siasia, Babangida said that the possibility of handing over the
leadership of the nation to younger generation should not be overruled or
overlooked.
According to him, the younger ones have the capability to
steer the ship of the nation aright pointing out that the younger people have
the passion and zeal to propel the nation to the path of development and
growth.
“History has shown
that a nation’s development fulcrum progresses better in the hands of younger
generation is more adventurous and full of fresh ideas.
“some of us assumed leadership at a very young age. The
older generation must give way for the new one. We have become analogue but
this is a digital age; so the young people should be supported to use their
digital knowledge to move the country forward.”
Speaking on the ‘Not too Young to Rule Bill’, the former
military president said the youths should put their energy towards pushing for
the realization of the Bill.
The leader of the delegation and Peoples Democratic Movement
(PDM) candidate in the last governorship election in Bayelsa State said the
group was in Minna to consult and seek the blessing of the former leader for a
new Nigeria, a new ideology ahead of 2019.
He said that the group would visit other former president
Olusegun Obasanjo, Goodluck Jonathan and former head of state General
Abdulsalam Abubakar for their support.
ABUJA – PRESIDENT
Muhammadu Buhari Friday in Abuja warned politicians against politicizing
abduction of Dapchi school girls in the country, saying security agencies will
deal severely with people making political capital out of it.
President
Muhammadu Buhari holding the shoulders of the only released boy while the
Minister of State for Foreign Affairs, Hajia Khadijat Abba Ibrahim (l);
Minister for Interior, Lt. Gen. Abdulrah,man Danbazzau (r) and other official
joined during a Presidential reception for the Dapchi girls at the State House,
Press Centre, Presidential Villa, Abuja. Photo by Abayomi Adeshida President
Buhari who gave the warning while receiving 105 school girls and two primary
school pupils from Dapchi, Yobe State, at the presidential villa, also
threatened that any security chief that allowed lapses in his job would be
dealt with.
Besides, he promised
to give unconditional amnesty to any Boko Haram insurgents that lays down arms
and embrace peace. the Minister of State for Foreign Affairs, Hajia Khadijat
Abba Ibrahim in a warm embrace with one of the lucky girls during a
Presidential reception for the Dapchi girls at the State House, Press Centre,
Presidential Villa, Abuja. Photo by Abayomi Adeshida The president affirmed
that Boko Haram insurgents released the Dapchi school girls last Wednesday
unconditionally after painstaking back channel negotiations.
He said government
opted for negotiations because it did not want any of the captives to be hurt
Speaking at the occasion, the Director General of State Security Services, DSS,
Lawan Daura, told President Buhari that four of the released Dapchi girls
sustained broken limbs.
While formally
handing over the girls to the President, the DSS boss said all the released
pupils have skin infections that were being treated. Dapchi School Girl Dapchi
School Girl President Buhari receives released Dapchi School Girls in State
House He also alleged that the utterances of some government agents who are not
officially permitted to speak for government almost marred have negotiation
process.
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If your woman dashes into the bathroom to clean up herself after an outing,
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A woman who has just had sex with another man would likely have this ‘knowing’
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guilt.
5. Avoiding eye contacts.
A cheating woman would find it difficult to maintain eye contact with you if
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did!
7. Unprovoked angry outbursts.
If you ask where she has been, she may accuse you of tele-guiding her or that
you don’t trust her, blah, blah…
8. Smudged make-up.
If she had her make-up smudged all over, it may be an indication that someone
had been there ahead of you!
9. Fresh make-up, fresh perfume. In the alternative, a freshly-applied make-up and recently-sprayed perfume
might be an indication that she has taken time to freshen up after a roll in
the hay!
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Demanding too much from a guy in a relationship and being possessive
is undoubtedly considered as the part and parcel of the female psyche.
Women usually have the tendency to exhaust men emotionally, but that is
not always the case. We completely understand that people do person
experiences many “thick and thins” during their lives. But even then
this excuse is not enough to cut out communication with your partner and
leave her stranded.
If your partner hesitates while telling the truth, then this compilation is tailor-made for you.
15. No more love
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The moment your partner starts complaining that “you are not the same
anymore”, get alert dear. This is the very first sign of falling out of
love. But this is not it. Eventually, there’ll come a time when he’ll
say that you don’t love him anymore, and that’s when you’ll go mad.
Remember, going mad is no bad. In fact, you have the right to go crazy
if he is putting HIS FAULTS on your shoulder.
14. Demanding space
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It starts with you spending days and nights with your partner; and
all of a sudden he backs off. This demand for space is not a problem at
all, but that does not mean that it cannot trouble your relationship. Do
not let the demand growth. Try and kill it as soon as possible. The
expanding distance between both of you can prove to be a perfect
invitation for the breakup agents.
13. No clear direction
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If your man wants to be with you, he will do anything to stay with
you and make you feel easy. Your relationship will lose its freshness
when he starts losing interest in you. Your partner ignoring the
material things in your relationship and getting confused regarding the
future is one of the top reasons behind the death of the love between
both of you.
12. Excuses, excuses and excuses….
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Believe it or not, your partner will have the dumbest excuses for not
doing almost everything that you would want to do with him. It seems
like as if he has suddenly become a skilled excuse maker for everything
every time. Moreover, your weekend plans might even get cancelled too,
and that even very frequently. Well, if you notice this then that means
you both are ready to fall down.
11. Making new friends
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If your partner is continuously ignoring you when he is with his
friends then you should better worry. To make male friends is not a big
issue. The problem starts when he starts spending time with girls that
you do not know. Moreover, he keeps them as his first priority and pays
zero attention to your text messages.
10. Lost interest
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Thing gets even trickier when a guy stops paying attention to what
his girlfriend says. Imagine that you are telling your guy an extremely
important story, and he hears it physically but ignores listening to it
mentally. This indicates that he does not own your problems anymore.
9. The boring date nights
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At the start, spending the nights dating with your partner was fun.
But now the things are not same. He is no fun at all, he gives a same
old reply to everything that you say, he does not tell you what’s going
on in his life, he keeps scrolling his phone and you have nothing to
discuss; are all the signs that it’s not working anymore. Probably he
has already found something or something more attention-worthy.
8. Ignoring the physical part
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Yes, we know that relationships are all built around the emotions and
feeling and mental factors. But that never eliminates the importance of
the physical aspect. Spending nights together and having a whole lot of
fun holds its own significance. If he repeatedly avoids getting
physical with you, then this surely means that he is weakening one of
the main pillars that your relationship is standing on.
7. He doesn’t try anymore
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If your partner shows lack of interest in your day because he doesn’t
care about how was your day or if your relationship is just a normal
and a regular routine, then you need to think about your relationship
with a person who makes your relationship a routine for you which often
becomes dull and boring. A relationship which is based on love is not a
routine and it shouldn’t be that way.
6. Getting cheap
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Every girl wants her guy to treat her like a queen. A girl always
gets treated like a daddy’s princess, and she demands the same treatment
from her partner. Yes, your partner used to pay bills and treat you
well when it all got started. But you should occasionally check that
where your relationship stands. Is he asking you to pay the bills? Is he
continuously abusing you? If that is the case then do not listen to his
lame excuses and ask him to treat you right.
5. He forgets
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Both of you make plans when you are on call and the other day he
completely forgets about the plans that you made. He remains busy and
avoids the meeting that he planned for you. He forgets your birthday and
even neglects to wish you a happy anniversary at 12:00 am. This
probably means one thing, which is that your relationship is not the
first thing on his mind. He does not think of you the way he did before.
4. He wants to change you
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You guys seemed perfect to each other in the beginning. After some
time, you starting noticing his flaws and loved him even more for them.
But the case with your partner is vice versa. He used to tell you he
loves you but now he wants to change you. He gets annoyed by everything
you do. This is a sign that love is long gone and you need to think
about maybe reinvesting in your relationship.
3. He always plays the blame game
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Relationships are all about mutual understanding. It requires
combined efforts for a love story to flourish. One must accept his/her
faults in a relationship and try to rectify what went wrong. Well if
your partner is playing the blame games and eventually blaming you for
everything that went wrong, then we have a bad news for you. He might be
hiding his flaws, deficiencies and mistakes while playing such games.
2. He’s too busy
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He’s reluctant in spending time with you. Things are not the same
anymore. You might find him distracted than usual in your presence,
which shows that he just doesn’t want to spend time with you physically
when you are there. He would look into his mobile phone or maybe in some
other stuff and would demand distance and space. His distance only
means that he’s not into it anymore.
1. No calls or texts
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In the ancient times, people used to communicate through the letters that were sent via pigeons or the postmen.
The sending process took hours, even days, to communicate. But if
your partner takes hours and days to reply in today’s world of
electronic communication, then our conclusion would be no surprise to
you. He has found some other ways of amusing himself.
