Two women nabbed in Edo over alleged lesbianism

Two women nabbed in Edo over alleged lesbianism

By Simon Ebegbulem

BENIN—TWO women allegedly involved in homosexual activities in Benin City, Edo State, are in the custody of the state Police Command.
It was learned that their arrest followed a tip-off by members of the public who described it as abominable to the customs and traditions of the nation.
Police operatives
The two accused ladies, (names withheld), were said to have confessed to Police authority that it was true that they were having sex when they were apprehended.
A Police source who craved anonymity, told Vanguard that the two ladies were arrested at a motel in the Government Reservation Area (G.R.A), Benin City on October 18, 2017.

One of the ladies was said to have told the Police in her confessional statement that she is bi-sexual and has a partner who had travelled outside the country hence she wanted to satisfy her sexual urge with the other suspect, not knowing that people were aware of her illicit acts.
She, however, said it was her first time of engaging in sex with her accomplice, noting that she has a secret lover who incidentally was away from Nigeria on the day of her arrest.
Police source confirmed that the women who have been detained will be charged to court for prosecution as steps had also been taken to arrest the other lady who was named as her partner.

HANGOVER CURE 6 REASONS WOMEN LEAVE THE MEN THEY LOVE

HANGOVER CURE: 6 REASONS WOMEN LEAVE THE MEN THEY LOVE

Love has no judgment, no agenda, no bias, and no bigotry. Love is love without a concrete definition. It lets go of boundaries, walls, and inhibitions. It is effortless. In relationships it does require work, but it’s just a rhythmic dance of ease and grace. Unfortunately, when it isn’t an easy dance, the relationship ends disastrously. It’s in those moments that we ask, “What happened?”

HERE ARE 6 REASONS WOMEN LEAVE THE MEN THEY LOVE:

1. THEY FEEL ALONE.
A woman needs to feel that she matters. If her man is not there to support her, there is no reason to continue a relationship. Women are nurturers. When in a relationship they believe that the man is their entire world. Men tend to detach quickly when they get comfortable. Sometimes in the loneliness of being with someone who is not emotionally present, the noise is deafening. A woman realizes that there is no room for the worthlessness that keeps coming up through the avoidance. When love and attention is not reciprocated, they realize they do not need to stay in that relationship.

2. THEY ARE NOT BEING ACKNOWLEDGED.
There is nothing more detrimental to a woman than not being fully present when she is speaking. A woman is moved by words. She needs to feel that she is understood, accepted, respected and supported. When she is sharing with her mate, it is because she needs to feel a connection with him. Chivalry is masterful. Women love the simple acts of communication and love. Taking out the garbage, doing the laundry, or anything that acknowledges presence is exceptional in a relationship. A woman will move on, while holding her heart, when she feels that she is being taken for granted.

3. THEY NO LONGER FEEL SEXY.
Men are sexual creatures. When they want sex they are ready. A woman needs intimacy, foreplay, and the feeling of being completely desired by her man. Routine is the kiss of death. A woman wants spontaneity. She craves to be romanced. Women live in their heads. Therefore, when a man is only being stimulated by porn or other women or just wants to have a release, a woman will be completely turned off. There is a moment in a woman’s life when she realizes that if her man doesn’t desire her, or makes her feel special (in and out of bed) then it’s time to move on.

4. THERE IS A SIGNIFICANT LIFE CHANGE.
Midlife hits everyone differently. Most women do not require a new car or fancy clothes. They need to know that they are sexy and wanted by their men. Menopause starts to creep into the picture, and what was once easily tolerated is no longer. Life changes: Children leave to college; a parent needs full time care; or financial stress is present. Women who overcome cancer or other illnesses also find a reset button that pushes the men out of their lives. A woman needs to know that these life changes are being navigated with strength and dignity alongside her man. When there is no support, a woman will quickly disassemble her life to get rid of her man.

5. WOMEN DON’T LIKE SOMEONE WHO IS PREDICTABLE.
Men fall into comfortable routines. The older they get, the less they want to participate in anything that is not about them. This is also why some men go through a massive midlife crisis. But, women need serendipitous moments. They need to know that they matter. Even a small note on a coffee mug is enough to bring appreciation into a relationship. Familiarity is not something that feels good in midlife. It feels boring. To a woman, a man is not a fixture. He is a companion.

6. THEIR MAN IS NOT PHYSICALLY THERE.
Women tolerate a lot, but having a man who cares more about being out and about is a definite “no-no!” In today’s world of feminism, a woman doesn’t need a man to take care of her. She needs a partner who will work along her side and appreciate her presence. When a man is more interested in spending time any place but next to her, she will cut him loose. It might take time, but the longer she postpones i

National Assembly okays autonomy for local governments, INEC to be in charge of Local Government elections

National Assembly okays autonomy for local governments, INEC to be in charge of Local Government elections

The National Assembly on Tuesday, granted full financial and administrative autonomy to all the 774 local council authorities across Nigeria by amending section 124 of the nation’s constitution.

The section provides a consequential provision for the making of the local councils, a full third tier government without undue interference from the state governments.

The ammendment was one of the 22 others approved by the House of Representatives last week and ratified by the Senate on Tuesday.

Both chambers had through a conference committee harmonised versions of the ammendments into the constitution carried out by each of them last month.

By the development, the National Assembly had ratified all the 23 clauses and sections that had been ammended by both chambers.

The newly ammended document which would be sent to States Houses of Assembly, for approval, also approved the creation of the Office of Auditor – General of the Local Government as
well as the State Local Government Service Commission.

The section equally deleted the State Independent Electoral Commission from the constitution thereby vesting the powers to conduct council elections on the Independent National Electoral Commission.

It however, retained the immunity clause in the constitution for the President and Governors by adopting the Senate version of the ammendments on the issue and rejected the House of Representatives version which removed the immunity clause.

The National Assembly also made provisions for Independent candidacy in future elections in Nigeria by amending sections 65 and 106 of the 1999 constitution.

12 Sweet Ways To Remind Your Boyfriend That You Love Him

12 Sweet Ways To Remind Your Boyfriend That You Love Him

 By Simon 

Love is a sweet thing to happen to anybody, it makes you feel you are in a pink cloud. Why is it important for a girl to remind her boyfriend in sweet ways that she loves him? The reason is that guys have a tendency of losing their patience in a relationship, much sooner than the girls. Somewhere things begin to get stale and boring for them. Hence, a girl needs to constantly remind her boyfriend about the love she has for him. It’s just like charging your mobile that is low in battery, that simple.

Therefore, there are many sweet ways to express your love to your boyfriend, which will grasp his attention. When you begin to implement these sweet ways, then the romance becomes more alive and the bonding turns stronger. None of these sweet ways are anyway strenuous or painful if you really love your boyfriend.

Also, read 15 Signs Your Man Is Probably Thinking About Breaking Up With You

1. Do what he likes.

Whenever there is spare time try and do things that your boyfriend likes. If he has a love for action movies or a game, switch it on and watch it along with him.

2. Wear the dress he really loves.

Every boyfriend finds their girlfriend cute or sexy in a particular dress, which they love to see them wearing. So, if you have the clue of which dress, then without any hesitation wear it for him. Now, whether that is a skirt, jeans or an evening gown, make sure to put it on. People pleasing in this area is beneficial.

3. Give him a surprise gift.

When your boyfriend is at home and with him least expecting, surprise him with a gift. Buy him something, that he has been wanting for quite some time, this will be like a cherry on the cake. It will assure that you love him.

4. Write him a love letter.

The best way to express your love is through love letters when you pen down your thoughts and feelings for your boyfriend. Let not the content be too serious, but add a little humorous touch to it. It may look old-fashioned, but this will be cherished and remembered by him for a long time.

5. Cook the dish he loves to eat.

They say, that to get to a man’s heart is via his stomach. Cook up the dish he loves the most, and surprise him with something delicious. This will definitely grab his attention and remind him too, that how much you care for him.

6. Recreate the first date, when you met.

He has always taken you out, but now it’s your turn and the best place to take him, is the spot where you first met. When there, remind him how he made you go crazy over him. This will certainly remind him and take him down memory lane, along with goosebumps.

7. Send him a romantic text.

A quick “I love you” text when he’s at the office will really make an impact on him. There’s something incredibly sweet about an unexpected loving text message from you that can lit-up his entire day. Complimenting him for being a lovable boyfriend, will pep his self-esteem and make him feel worthy.

8. Send him a cute selfie.

When you are away from him, send him cute selfies during the day, whether it’s from your workplace, home or with your friends. Every boyfriend loves to see their girlfriend’s images popping up on their phone, confirming him that he is been thought of.

9. Leave a sweet note.

You can leave a sweet note anywhere here and there, either in his lunch box or on his car steering wheel. Write how much you love him and miss him, trust me, this little gesture from you, will be really appreciated by your boyfriend.

10. Get to know his friends.

One of the sweet ways to remind your boyfriend that you love him is by being friendly with his friends and getting to know them. It makes him feel secure that you care for him and his friends too. Friends also have a special place in their life and he will highly respect you for this understanding.

5 Clear Signs to know He's THE ONE

5 clear signs to know he's THE ONE

If you're in a relationship, before you take that plunge, here are 5 sure-fire signs to know he's THE ONE

 Relationships are no walk in the park, granted they can be fun, fulfilling and take us to the highest possible points of feeling, but they can also try the patience of the Biblical Job.

What's even more challenging is finding the right person to settle down with, as any single person can attest, this is where the true test lies.

In today's world, there are too many people who have settled with the wrong person for all the wrong reasons either from a lack of choice, or a fear of rocking the boat.

Also, we can get so caught up in chasing hearts and flowers that we forget the little things that truly count.

So, if you're in a relationship, before you take that plunge, here are 5 sure-fire signs to know he's THE ONE.

Also read: They Say The Secret To Your Personality Is The Length Of This Finger. Mine’s Scary True!

1. They do things they normally won't do on your account: We're not talking anything drastic like suddenly shaving off your well-kept afro, it's the simple everyday things like watching your favourite television show which they absolutely loathe. They do it not exactly because they like it, but because it's another way of bonding with you. In such an instance, you friend have found a keeper.

2. You share the same values: It's very important that you share the same values with your partner because ultimately it's these things that bind you together - a good work ethic, loyalty, a shared interest in humanitarian causes and so forth. It can also be a plus when you share things like background and religion simply because they go a long way in shaping us as individuals.

3. Your partner is supportive: There's nothing better or sexier than a supportive partner. Many times when partners stray, it's because they're seeking support in one form or the other.

4. They defend you before their family: Whether we like it or not, a person's family plays a crucial role in a relationship and when you can count on your partner to always be in your corner even when the family isn't, it makes life significantly better.

5. You have a mind communication: Is there anything sexier than a couple who can communicate tons with just a glance across the room? It's the stuff great romance books, and real life relationships are made of. It's important to share an intellectual and almost telepathic connection with your significant other, when this happens, you know you've struck relationship gold.

So, what signs did you see that let you know you'd met THE ONE? Share your thoughts with us.

Source: http://www.pulse.ng/

They Say The Secret To Your Personality Is The Length Of This Finger. Mine’s Scary True!

They Say The Secret To Your Personality Is The Length Of This Finger. Mine’s Scary True!

You can tell a lot about a person just by looking at the shape of their fingers, did you know that? It may sound a bit silly and even stupid, but you’d be surprised at how accurate it can be. Just look at the picture and then look at your fingers, are you type A, B or C? Choose your finger shape and read on if you want to find out. You can check your friends’ shape as well and find out a bit more about their personality. Tell us if you agree with the description, mine was spot on!

TYPE A

• You are not very open and you don’t share your feelings easily. You always strive to present yourself much stronger and more independent than you really are.
• You are an emotional person and once you feel connected to someone you can be super fine.
• You despise lies, hypocrisy and dishonesty because it goes against your beliefs.
• You are reserved when it comes to showing emotions and want to appear cool and strong.
• You are known to be a bit eccentric and arrogant. You aren’t very tolerant.
• You have a big heart, and you like to help others. You will finish every task you are given even if you don’t like it.
• You enjoy having a good laugh, and can laugh at anything and everything as long as you are amused, even if it’s not so funny. Your expressions reveal all of your thoughts.
• You are generally cold with people you’re not really close to, but can even be overly emotional to your friends and family.

TYPE B

• You don’t like to be the first one to approach someone or take actions.
• You are very loyal and devoted. If you start falling in love with someone, you will give them your full attention and will always think about them.
• Deep down inside you have a very sensitive soul, although it may not look like that at times. Often people get the wrong idea about you because you are pretending to not know anything in order to protect someone’s feelings.
• You are very committed, once you set your mind on something, you’ll do your best to finish it until the end.
• You’re scared of getting hurt. You want people to think that you don’t need anyone, but you dream of finding your soulmate.
• You will stay calm even when you are feeling extremely uncomfortable about something.

TYPE C

• You easily forget things that make you upset, and you don’t hold a grudge.
• You don’t like unfamiliar territories. It bothers you when you have to deal with anything new and unknown.
• You are respectful towards other people’s opinions.
• You can sometimes come off bossy because your ego is extremely high when arguing with other people. But, you’ll be the first to apologize afterwards.
• You are not very open regarding your problems and feelings, you always keep them to yourself.
• You are very straightforward and you know very well what you like and dislike. You also like people to be able to trust you and depend on you.

Source: https://happylifereport.com

10 Facts About Sexsomnia: Sexual Intercourse During Sleep

10 Facts About Sexsomnia: Sexual Intercourse During Sleep

We're no strangers to bizarre sexual phenomenon, but this one is a mystery that had us truly baffled. While most of us are dreaming sweet dreams, and letting out bodies enjoy a good rest, others are suffering from a terrible sleep sex condition. Okay, so it doesn't sound that bad when we put it like that, but what if we told you there were people who were literally having sex by accident, with no memory of it in the morning? We can explain...

Known as 'sexsomnia' or sleep sex, this condition causes sufferers to engage in sexual activity while they're sleeping. As in, completely asleep, with no idea what's going on. While it may sound funny at first, this is a very real medical condition that often causes distress and embarrassment to the sufferer. Not to mention their surprised partners!

We hear a lot of people claim they "accidentally" had sex. Maybe they had one too many cocktails and went home with a rando - it wasn't their plan for the night, therefore, the events taking place are referred to as accidental. For those with sexsomnia, they genuinely do have sex by accident, often without any recollection of it ever happening.

There's really no definitive measure, but there are some conditions which may make people more susceptible to developing sexsomnia. People who sleepwalk or experience night terrors have a higher chance of suffering from sexsomnia, too. Doctors say that epilepsy can also cause sleep sex and other unusual sleeping patterns.

We get that being a sexsomniac could be confusing and stressful, but we can't help but feel bad for their partners, too. Sleeping people have woken up to their sexsomniac partners having sex with them, despite having never provided their consent. Of course, sufferers can't help what they do while sleeping, but it sounds pretty traumatic anyway!

Thankfully, sexsomnia is just like other parasomnias in the sense that it happens occasionally, and definitely not every night. The triggers for all parasomnias, including sleepwalking, appear to be alcohol, drugs, stress, and sleep deprivation. While sufferers aren't guaranteed to have an episode by engaging in one of the trigger behaviors, it's much more likely.

We've all heard the warnings to 'never wake a sleepwalker', as it could be dangerous. But this is a myth and they're actually more likely to encounter danger if you DON'T wake them up. Yes, they may be confused and disoriented, but it's better to snap them out of it. The same goes for sexsomnia - feel free to wake them up, especially if you don't want to have sex with them!

Sexsomnia is a relatively new disorder in terms of official medical acknowledgement. The condition was first published in 1996 by three Canadian researchers. Since it's documentation, some men have used the condition as a defense against rape charges, though it's not clear if they were genuinely experiencing sexsomnia or exploiting the condition for their own gain.

So, what does sexsomnia actually look like? Partners of sufferers describe them as usually having their eyes open, however, they are generally unblinking and unresponsive. Talking is also not uncommon, though we doubt the conversation is riveting. Sexsomniacs often feel confused, scared, and guilty about sleep sex, particularly if they wake up during the act

If sexsomniacs manage to make it through an entire sexual act and then continue sleeping, they are extremely unlikely to remember their actions when they wake up. Partners of sexsomniacs have sometimes engaged in sex, not realizing that their lover is actually sleeping. Imagine their shock the next day when they remember nothing!

Source: www.jellyshare.com