ABUJA – PRESIDENT
Muhammadu Buhari Friday in Abuja warned politicians against politicizing
abduction of Dapchi school girls in the country, saying security agencies will
deal severely with people making political capital out of it.
President
Muhammadu Buhari holding the shoulders of the only released boy while the
Minister of State for Foreign Affairs, Hajia Khadijat Abba Ibrahim (l);
Minister for Interior, Lt. Gen. Abdulrah,man Danbazzau (r) and other official
joined during a Presidential reception for the Dapchi girls at the State House,
Press Centre, Presidential Villa, Abuja. Photo by Abayomi Adeshida President
Buhari who gave the warning while receiving 105 school girls and two primary
school pupils from Dapchi, Yobe State, at the presidential villa, also
threatened that any security chief that allowed lapses in his job would be
dealt with.
Besides, he promised
to give unconditional amnesty to any Boko Haram insurgents that lays down arms
and embrace peace. the Minister of State for Foreign Affairs, Hajia Khadijat
Abba Ibrahim in a warm embrace with one of the lucky girls during a
Presidential reception for the Dapchi girls at the State House, Press Centre,
Presidential Villa, Abuja. Photo by Abayomi Adeshida The president affirmed
that Boko Haram insurgents released the Dapchi school girls last Wednesday
unconditionally after painstaking back channel negotiations.
He said government
opted for negotiations because it did not want any of the captives to be hurt
Speaking at the occasion, the Director General of State Security Services, DSS,
Lawan Daura, told President Buhari that four of the released Dapchi girls
sustained broken limbs.
While formally
handing over the girls to the President, the DSS boss said all the released
pupils have skin infections that were being treated. Dapchi School Girl Dapchi
School Girl President Buhari receives released Dapchi School Girls in State
House He also alleged that the utterances of some government agents who are not
officially permitted to speak for government almost marred have negotiation
process.
Well, rightly or wrongly, sex experts
say the following are the signs to watch for if you’re suspecting that your
woman is having sex with some other man!
1.She rebuffs your advances.
When a woman has just had sex with someone, she is likely to rebuff your sexual
advances if you approach her for sex!
2. She smells rather funny.
Well, if she rushed out of the place where she had the extra sex without taking
a shower, you may likely smell the ejaculate on her!
3. She rushes to take her bath.
If your woman dashes into the bathroom to clean up herself after an outing,
there might be more to it!
4. That ‘knowing smile’.
A woman who has just had sex with another man would likely have this ‘knowing’
smile plastered her on her face, perhaps because she wants to cover up her
guilt.
5. Avoiding eye contacts.
A cheating woman would find it difficult to maintain eye contact with you if
she has been seeing another man.
6. Crumpled attire.
This is more of a teenage thing, but an adult woman may have her clothes
crumpled if she had just had a quickie and hadn’t taken off her top before she
did!
7. Unprovoked angry outbursts.
If you ask where she has been, she may accuse you of tele-guiding her or that
you don’t trust her, blah, blah…
8. Smudged make-up.
If she had her make-up smudged all over, it may be an indication that someone
had been there ahead of you!
9. Fresh make-up, fresh perfume. In the alternative, a freshly-applied make-up and recently-sprayed perfume
might be an indication that she has taken time to freshen up after a roll in
the hay!
Sex is not all about making children. You must be
a different woman to your husband every time. Seduce your husband, don't always
allow your husband to ask for Sex, there must be no
timetable for sex. Be creative, don't be predictable. Give him what he wants.
If you loose influence over your husband, you have lost womanhood. Be part of
your husband plans. Don't have
too many children, you want to sell them? Allow your husband to check
in and out anytime. When a man is sexually satisfied, he is emotionally
stable. Stop saying, is it food ? Yes, sex is food !!!As a wife, try to invest in
yourself spiritually so you can adequately support him. Build yourself as his
prayer warrior so that you will not be forced to pray at the end of your life.
Don't allow your husband to provide all your needs, he is not a money making
machine. Iron sharpens iron, try to reciprocate.
You are meant to
support each other spiritually, financially, physically and morally through
thick and thin. You are a builder....Wise woman buildeth her home. Women need
wisdom to build their homes. Do not be too outspoken, know when to talk, when
to listen and when to be quiet. Love your husband with all your heart, never tell
him, if not because of my children, remember you've known him before the
arrival of those children. Pamper your husband, put his head on your chest and
pray for him. Give him unannounced kiss from the back.... mwahhhhhh, don't be
too holy to kiss in the public. He is your husband for God sake. Be romantic
joooo, it is good for the heart. Some people are not happy that you're happy in
that marriage, proof them wrong that you love him and he is your crown, always
feel good when you hold him. Don't look 50 while you're still under 40, it
drives men crazy. Always keep fit regardless of your age or body.
To men:
Do not take a woman who does all these for granted!
Pamper her, pray for her, cherish her, love her, support her financially, make
her feel like your woman! God bless you and your marriages.
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Demanding too much from a guy in a relationship and being possessive
is undoubtedly considered as the part and parcel of the female psyche.
Women usually have the tendency to exhaust men emotionally, but that is
not always the case. We completely understand that people do person
experiences many “thick and thins” during their lives. But even then
this excuse is not enough to cut out communication with your partner and
leave her stranded.
If your partner hesitates while telling the truth, then this compilation is tailor-made for you.
15. No more love
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The moment your partner starts complaining that “you are not the same
anymore”, get alert dear. This is the very first sign of falling out of
love. But this is not it. Eventually, there’ll come a time when he’ll
say that you don’t love him anymore, and that’s when you’ll go mad.
Remember, going mad is no bad. In fact, you have the right to go crazy
if he is putting HIS FAULTS on your shoulder.
14. Demanding space
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It starts with you spending days and nights with your partner; and
all of a sudden he backs off. This demand for space is not a problem at
all, but that does not mean that it cannot trouble your relationship. Do
not let the demand growth. Try and kill it as soon as possible. The
expanding distance between both of you can prove to be a perfect
invitation for the breakup agents.
13. No clear direction
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If your man wants to be with you, he will do anything to stay with
you and make you feel easy. Your relationship will lose its freshness
when he starts losing interest in you. Your partner ignoring the
material things in your relationship and getting confused regarding the
future is one of the top reasons behind the death of the love between
both of you.
12. Excuses, excuses and excuses….
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Believe it or not, your partner will have the dumbest excuses for not
doing almost everything that you would want to do with him. It seems
like as if he has suddenly become a skilled excuse maker for everything
every time. Moreover, your weekend plans might even get cancelled too,
and that even very frequently. Well, if you notice this then that means
you both are ready to fall down.
11. Making new friends
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If your partner is continuously ignoring you when he is with his
friends then you should better worry. To make male friends is not a big
issue. The problem starts when he starts spending time with girls that
you do not know. Moreover, he keeps them as his first priority and pays
zero attention to your text messages.
10. Lost interest
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Thing gets even trickier when a guy stops paying attention to what
his girlfriend says. Imagine that you are telling your guy an extremely
important story, and he hears it physically but ignores listening to it
mentally. This indicates that he does not own your problems anymore.
9. The boring date nights
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At the start, spending the nights dating with your partner was fun.
But now the things are not same. He is no fun at all, he gives a same
old reply to everything that you say, he does not tell you what’s going
on in his life, he keeps scrolling his phone and you have nothing to
discuss; are all the signs that it’s not working anymore. Probably he
has already found something or something more attention-worthy.
8. Ignoring the physical part
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Yes, we know that relationships are all built around the emotions and
feeling and mental factors. But that never eliminates the importance of
the physical aspect. Spending nights together and having a whole lot of
fun holds its own significance. If he repeatedly avoids getting
physical with you, then this surely means that he is weakening one of
the main pillars that your relationship is standing on.
7. He doesn’t try anymore
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If your partner shows lack of interest in your day because he doesn’t
care about how was your day or if your relationship is just a normal
and a regular routine, then you need to think about your relationship
with a person who makes your relationship a routine for you which often
becomes dull and boring. A relationship which is based on love is not a
routine and it shouldn’t be that way.
6. Getting cheap
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Every girl wants her guy to treat her like a queen. A girl always
gets treated like a daddy’s princess, and she demands the same treatment
from her partner. Yes, your partner used to pay bills and treat you
well when it all got started. But you should occasionally check that
where your relationship stands. Is he asking you to pay the bills? Is he
continuously abusing you? If that is the case then do not listen to his
lame excuses and ask him to treat you right.
5. He forgets
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Both of you make plans when you are on call and the other day he
completely forgets about the plans that you made. He remains busy and
avoids the meeting that he planned for you. He forgets your birthday and
even neglects to wish you a happy anniversary at 12:00 am. This
probably means one thing, which is that your relationship is not the
first thing on his mind. He does not think of you the way he did before.
4. He wants to change you
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You guys seemed perfect to each other in the beginning. After some
time, you starting noticing his flaws and loved him even more for them.
But the case with your partner is vice versa. He used to tell you he
loves you but now he wants to change you. He gets annoyed by everything
you do. This is a sign that love is long gone and you need to think
about maybe reinvesting in your relationship.
3. He always plays the blame game
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Relationships are all about mutual understanding. It requires
combined efforts for a love story to flourish. One must accept his/her
faults in a relationship and try to rectify what went wrong. Well if
your partner is playing the blame games and eventually blaming you for
everything that went wrong, then we have a bad news for you. He might be
hiding his flaws, deficiencies and mistakes while playing such games.
2. He’s too busy
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He’s reluctant in spending time with you. Things are not the same
anymore. You might find him distracted than usual in your presence,
which shows that he just doesn’t want to spend time with you physically
when you are there. He would look into his mobile phone or maybe in some
other stuff and would demand distance and space. His distance only
means that he’s not into it anymore.
1. No calls or texts
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In the ancient times, people used to communicate through the letters that were sent via pigeons or the postmen.
The sending process took hours, even days, to communicate. But if
your partner takes hours and days to reply in today’s world of
electronic communication, then our conclusion would be no surprise to
you. He has found some other ways of amusing himself.
Society constantly makes the assumption that only jealous people sense
the feeling of infidelity in a relationship. Society also makes the
assumption that men are the usual culprits. But women are just as likely
to cheat on their partner as men do. With that said, there are signs
that your girlfriend is cheating on you.
Getting the feeling that your girlfriend is cheating is not easy to
explain, especially if she doesn’t appear to have done anything wrong.
But you have this strange feeling in the pit of your stomach that she
is. Unfortunately this feeling is not enough to accuse or confront her
about cheating. You need to treat it like a law case; you need to be
able to prove it.
In order to prove it, you need to look for patterns or signs that can
help you build your case. Below are the top signs that your girlfriend
is cheating on you.
You’re No Longer A Team: There is nothing more
beautiful than an independent woman. For many years women have fought to
get equal rights and they will do everything in their power to keep
them. But when you’re in a committed relationship,
you have to learn to start working as a team. If you and your
girlfriend were once a team, but now you notice she is going back to her
independent ways, this could be a sign that she is planning on
replacing or leaving you. This is one of the most common signs that your
girlfriend is cheating on you.
She Points Out Every Flaw: Everyone makes mistakes
and no one is perfect in this world, and your girlfriend knows that. But
if you notice that she has been pointing out every flaw of yours, she
might be trying to give herself some fuel to break up with you. She may
also be trying to make it seem that the reason she’s breaking up with
you is because of all the flaws she’s been pointing out.
Constantly Wondering Where You Are: You might think
it is sweet that your girlfriend wants to know what your plans are for
the day, but there is a chance that she is only doing this so she can
make sure you two don’t run into each other. When someone is cheating,
the obvious goal is to never get caught, and the only way to do that is
to know where your partner is at all times.
Dismissive:If your girlfriend is usually a good
listener and a very approachable person, then it might be a red flag if
she begins to be very dismissive. If she stops listening to things you
are telling her or shrugs off questions when you ask her, you might want
to start looking for cheating clues.
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Nights At Work: Being supportive in a
relationship is essential, especially if it involves your girlfriend
trying to get a promotion at work. However, if someone’s occasional late
nights turn into constant late nights every week, this could be a red
flag. If she isn’t cheating, she’ll realize that sometimes there are
more important things in life than work.
She Stops Opening Up: Sometimes people think that
cheating is only a physical act. But emotional cheating can be just as
tragic if not more. If your girlfriend has stopped opening up to you
despite your persistent approach to talking to her, she may have found
someone else that she is opening up to.
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She Has Many New Friends: There is nothing wrong
with having a large social circle. Different faces and personalities
always make for good friendships. But if you notice that she’s making
new friends and you haven’t been invited to meet them at any point,
something might not be right. This could be a sign that she is trying to
move to a different crowd that has no association with you.
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Trouble In the Bedroom: A healthy sex life
is an important part of an intimate relationship. It doesn’t mean that
you have to constantly show your love and affection through physicality
every single day, but if there is a lack of spontaneous activity, there
could be a problem. Every relationship has its ups and downs and
sometimes the sex life can get stale. If your girlfriend’s interest in
being intimate with you keeps decreasing, she might be getting her fix
from someone else.
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Her Phone Gets All the Attention:With the invention
of the smartphone, people rarely have to spend time with each other
because they can interact with different types of social media. In
relationships, it’s a good way to stay connected when you’re not
together, but when you are with each other, there should be no need for
phones. If your girlfriend is on her phone more frequently than usual
when she’s with you, she might be cheating. She might also be obsessed
with her social media, which is also an issue as well.
Complete Makeover: Signs that your girlfriend is cheating on you definitely includes her getting a complete makeover.
It’s natural for both partners to get comfortable in a relationship
over time. This is a good thing though, it shows that both of you feel
that the relationship is in a stable place. However, if you notice that
she has bought new clothes, got a fresh new style to her hair and is
wearing perfume every time she leaves the house, it could be a red flag.
She might try and play it off and say she’s trying to look good for
you, but you know that she looked good even before she did this
transformation.
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She’s Hiding Things: I’m all for having personal
space when it comes to certain things. If I have a password on my phone,
it doesn’t mean I’m hiding things, it just means I don’t want anyone
invading my privacy. However, if your girlfriend becomes very defensive
about her phone, laptop or tablet, there might be a raise for concern.
This is especially true if you find her changing her passwords or
getting really jumpy as soon as you walk into the room. This is one of
the strongest signs that your girlfriend is cheating on you.
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Let me remind you that these behaviors should only be used as signs
and not actual proof. The last thing you want to do is make a big scene
about something that might not even be true because it could have
consequences for your relationship. However, do not ignore the signs
that your girlfriend is cheating on you, use them as a guideline if you
decide to confront her.
